Figuring out what your strengths are and finding ways
to use them more in your everyday life is a key way to amp up your
happiness, wellbeing and success.
Unfortunately, most of us tend to focus more on our weakness than on
our strengths. Instead of trying to use our strengths more, sometimes
the focus is on what we aren’t doing well and trying to fix our
‘problems’; for e.g. your parents noticed you received a D in Maths but
didn't pay attention to the A you received for English on your report.
It’s can be good to try to improve yourself, but if you only focus on
what you don’t do well it can get you down and only gives half the
picture of your abilities (and who you are!).
If you know your strengths, and put more emphasis on what you are good
at you’ll be more motivated, capable, and up for life challenges.
You’re also more likely to experience flow
- that feeling of being at your best, being on a roll - because
activities that give you flow are usually those in which you are using
some of your top strengths. The combination of all these things mean
that using your strengths boosts your wellbeing, happiness and success.
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